What is your tribute?
My tribute is determined by the session demands and length. I cannot give you a specific price quote until I know what your interests are. Do keep in mind that this is a luxury service that will have a corresponding luxury rate.
This is my first time. What do I do?
Follow all of my instructions to the letter. Every provider has their own rules that should be followed if you’d like a shot at having a session – mine are no exception. My protocol is also quite standard and comparable to that of any quality Domina. Please read about my expectations and contact me if you have further questions.
How do I book?
Submit an intake form through my website. If your form is properly filled out and our interests and availability align I will respond via email. Sometimes I am unable to accommodate requests or form submissions/emails have been lost to the void in the past. If you fear that this may have happened to you, please fill out the form again – there is no harm in doing so. Screening and deposits are required to secure all bookings
Do I really need to send a deposit? ID?
Yes, always, and this information will always be kept private. A deposit and ID verification are for my security and nothing more. Please consider that being irresponsible with someone’s personal information would be absolutely terrible for my business and that I have no interest in compromising myself. I use an encrypted email address or Signal for those who are especially concerned about privacy. Please include your preferred method of communication on your intake form if this is a concern for you.
How do I send a deposit?
All deposits are made to $VicThi on Cashapp. You can simply write “dinner” and the last four digits of your phone number (I will verify this with you later) in the field that denotes what the transaction is for. I do not use Venmo, PayPal, or Zelle for privacy reasons. If you do not have access to Cashapp, we can discuss crypto options. The rest of the tribute is expected in cash.
Where are you located?
New York City. I use both private and commercial dungeon spaces – primarily in Manhattan. Availability, convenience, and equipment needs will influence the exact location. Outcall sessions are only available to clients who I am well acquainted with and you will be expected to cover the rental and any travel costs.
Do you tour?
I mostly travel for personal reasons and rarely for touring. I visit Las Vegas, Boston, and DC annually with occasional travel to the Bay Area. If you are hoping to catch me in your city I would recommend booking a FMTY over waiting for me to tour.
How long will our session be?
You should provide your desired session length when you submit your intake form. I may recommend a different length of time depending upon your interests. I generally recommend 1.5 hours for a first time session. A majority of my sessions are 3-4 hours. I do not take any bookings under 1 hour.
Is it clean? Safe?
I pride myself on making my sessions as safe as possible, but there is inherent risk to BDSM. I have been doing this work for 8 years and have received in person and virtual training for many different hard and soft skills. I keep my CRP, First Aid, AED, and BBP certifications up to date. I have aseptic and sterile training. I thoroughly clean all of my implements, tools, and surfaces that are not single use before and after sessions.
Do I have to like physical pain to see you?
No! There are many types of pain that can be explored apart from physical. Although physically tormenting someone is an ultimate pleasure of mine, it’s not essential to my desires or sessions. If you’re not into pain of any sort there is still fun to be had. Roughly half of my regular submissives have no interest in S&M. There are quite a few people who only see me socially as well.
What if I need to cancel or reschedule?
Cancellations or reschedulings must be made 36+ hrs in advance or you will be liable for the full tribute. Cancellations made 36+ hrs in advance can be rescheduled for up to two weeks after the original date using the same deposit. Rescheduling needs to be booked within two weeks or you will need to submit a new deposit if you would like to reschedule. It is extremely rare that I need to cancel or reschedule a session. If I do, I will honor the deposit for rescheduling for up to one month.
Can I be your slave? Do you need a houseboy?
Although a personal servant would be very useful, I am not letting just anyone provide this service for me. This is a position that is earned over time through hard work and dedication. Do not ask me about this in your initial contact. Do not ask me about this after our second session. You may earn the privilege of being offered this position after long term sessioning. TLDR; no, earn it.